
Living with Parkinson's disease hasn't exactly been a walk in the park (literally or figuratively) but what I discovered some time ago is that it has presented me with challenges that invited me to consider new ways of thinking which in turn led me to develop more productive ways of coping.
I was recently presented with an opportunity to put this into practice, having been accepted for Deep Brain Stimulation surgery. I made up my mind that I would remain calm throughout the experience by using deep breathing techniques and self-talk. In fact I practically sailed through the surgery , which took place just a few weeks ago. It was a remarkable experience which showed me how much stronger. I have become.
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The device has to be programmed every few months to improve my symptoms.
Writing is my true passion. I love to paint pictures with words – ‘pictures’ that bring stories to life. Many of the essays that I have written and posted on this blog arrive at a conclusion that demonstrates a fresh perspective that has helped me. And since I am turning 78 in September the lines between Parkinson’s and Aging tend to blur, and both have taught me life lessons that continue to smooth the road.
My husband is not only my partner of almost 39 years, he is also my resident critic and devoted caregiver (oh how I resisted that word – but it now fits). Each of us had children from previous marriages – 8 between us – and they have delighted us with 8 fabulous grandchildren. Sadly, however we also had another granddaughter – a remarkable little girl who died in 2007 at the age of four.
I’m fortunate in that I love solitude and have several interests that absorb my time and attention – such as creative writing, playing the piano, photography, woodcarving – and I love reading.
I hope you might connect with some of what I have learned and described in my real-life Parkinson’s stories. Feel free to email me at adelegould@mac.com if you have any questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics.
